A former US Secret Service special agent has cautioned against three types of individuals that are best avoided in life. The advice comes from Evy Poumpouras, a TV commentator, journalist, and author who previously served as a secret service agent.
Evy, who holds a Master of Arts in Forensic Psychology and a Master of Science in Journalism from Columbia University, shared her insights during an appearance on BBC Maestro. She highlighted the importance of steering clear of people who consistently bring drama, conflict, and complaints into your life.
According to Evy, individuals who thrive on drama can inadvertently drag others into their turmoil, affecting their well-being. She also pointed out that those constantly embroiled in conflict may claim to dislike it but subconsciously seek it out due to ingrained behavioral patterns.
Furthermore, Evy emphasized the negative impact of complainers and blamers, stressing that taking accountability is crucial for personal growth and success. She noted that in her experience at the Secret Service, there was little tolerance for complaints or blame-shifting, as these behaviors hinder progress and self-improvement.
Evy’s advice resonated with viewers, garnering over three million views and more than 150,000 likes on BBC Maestro’s TikTok account. Comments on the post praised her insights, with many agreeing that avoiding such draining individuals is essential for maintaining personal well-being.