A vicar who made unwanted sexual advances towards a woman while intoxicated has managed to escape imprisonment. Robert ‘Bob’ Weldon, a former police officer employed at Holy Trinity church in Folkestone, was involved in the incident where he tried to forcefully kiss the victim and stick his tongue in her mouth.
Despite the details presented at the town’s magistrates’ court, the 68-year-old evaded a jail term. According to prosecutor Neil Sweeney, the incident occurred during a gathering where alcohol was consumed, and Weldon attempted to embrace the victim aggressively.
The victim, feeling uncomfortable, managed to break free from Weldon’s hold and reported the incident due to his position within the church. Following his arrest and subsequent suspension in December, Weldon, residing on Manor Road, has decided to retire.
During the court proceedings, it was revealed that the victim had a history of abuse, rendering her vulnerable, a fact known to the defendant. Judge William Nelson emphasized Weldon’s lack of general risk towards women and his deep remorse over the incident, which was described by his defense as a brief lapse in judgment.
Weldon’s legal representative, Nigel Riley, disclosed that his client has renounced alcohol, even taking a religious vow, as a result of the incident. Despite the regrettable actions, Weldon pleaded guilty to spare the victim from further distress, expressing a public apology for his behavior.
Requesting a community order due to Weldon’s health issues and character references, Riley highlighted Weldon’s minimal risk of reoffending. The judge concurred, opting for an 18-month community order, unpaid work, rehabilitation sessions, and a two-year restraining order preventing contact with the victim.
Weldon, who served as part of the Trinity Benefice since 2016 after a police career spanning three decades, will not be returning to ministry following the incident. The Diocese of Canterbury, Weldon’s employer, confirmed his permanent withdrawal from public ministry and assured support for the victim, emphasizing their commitment to safeguarding measures.